I'm a 26F.
I'm in a relationship from past 4 years, we are happy together. He is a caring and loving boyfriend. We do have fights but it is very silly arguments. We had the plan of getting married from the time we stepped in this relation. He wants to get married to me too but he wants me to stay with his family after marriage. I don't have any problem staying with the in-laws but his married sister and her kid stays too. His sister stays with them without divorce from her husband and till now didn't reveal the reason of leaving her husband. She is very lazy, she isn't doing any job and neither wants to. I feel after his parents she will turn out to b a burden on us and we won't get our space too. On top of it she has a kid. His parents also doesn't work and his family is not so stable too fanicancily. I'm happy supporting him and his parents but again I don't want his sis and kid as a extra burden. Even if we stay out we have to support them.My boyfriend is not understanding it atal. I don't know what to do. I don't want to end this relationship too because we are way too good together just this issue of her sister is making it so complicated. Please suggest.