I am divorced person at d age of 27.i am always confuse that the decision was taken by me is wrong or right.This is my story.and I never share with anyone except my parents and few close friends. Can you help me to know that i am right or wrong.
Ours is an arrange marriage.After marriage things are changing majorly.whatever he said before marriage he flipped out. For ex, I told him that we are best friends of each other before husband and wife.because in friends there is no ego clashes comes. But after marriage he told me once very firmly that i am your husband only not a friend. That time I got shocked.
After that he I started abusing with bad words in front of his family. His family also treating me like a disrespectful person in the house. I feel like I am no one.i am loosing my self respect. I feel like useless there because they treat me like the same. He always blaming my parents. And once I told him about his mother he got very angry and started fighting.he never called me by my name or never sit beside me in house only. I feel like that kya mai bhagke aayi hu yaha pe.
He always doubted on my character dignity from the day one but I ignored it in starting time.he is like why are you like that boys picture or why are you accept his request or who is that boy commented on your puc.
And strted fighting on such a foolish things.after tht his family also started doubting me.they never allow me to go outside aloneonly allow me to go job. And he always asked me transfer all my savings to his moms account.
Paise tak thik tha but in return I also expect the things from my husband also.
I always feel lonely in spite of having the four person in that home.
Obviously it affecting my health and professional life too.
I decide to take divorce. And stay alone.
Abhi mai to khush hu but bolte hai na divorce girls life is not easy because of society. Log kuch na kuch bate karte hia because society ki mentality hai ki ladki ne hi kuch kiya hoga. And sometimes because of this my parents also get affected and they feel sad for me.